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Dr Sadie Sheafe Ph.D.,LCSW. ABSDip, is a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist, American Board of Sexology Diplomate, and Licensed Clinical Social Worker; Certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, she at exhibit serves when you imagine that the Chairman on the Virginia Legislative Committee for the National Association Social Work (NASW); and is Regional Representative for Hampton Roads, Virginia. She can be Chairman of the Department of Veterans Affairs Social Work Professional Standards Board, for the South East Region of Virginia and an Adjunct Professor at Norfolk State University in the Doctoral and Masters Degree Programs for Social Work. Dr Sheafe is a member of the American Board of Clinical Sexologists and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). Since 2008 she was appointed to the Mental Health Advisory Council Board for the urban of Portsmouth, Virginia and likewise elected to the State Board of Directors for NASW.
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I am 26 yr classic male, from India, at exhibit staying at Phoenix (AZ, USA). And it's my tale.......
Since the last week of October to December first week of this yr (2010), I had been visiting single strip club for essentially 1 or 2 occasions all and sundry and every week and all and sundry and every time I took 1 or 2 lap dances with settle upon girls.
I generally shave my beard in the morning at 9am. And every so often I get cuts right via the shave. No cuts are enormous than 2-three millimeter everywhere and that they bleed every so often (bleed for jiffy). After shaving, I take scorching water bath after which a scorching coffee. I visit the club at around 2-3pm and previous than the lap dance, I generally have a chilly drink. There is approximately 4-5 hours gap among sustaining the shaving cuts and the lap dance. There has never been an instance where there was an active bleeding from the cuts right via the lap dance.
During the lap dance, I only kissed and/or rubbed my face over the neck, among/on the breasts and as temporarily as later on on the butts / thighs (never did that on her vagina) of the woman. Every lap dance was approximately 5-10 minutes. What scarring me is, if her vaginal fluid exhibit on her butts/thigh or on her physique surface or the lines of semen from the preceding buyer to whom she gave a lap dance or lines of blood if any (I didnt see any blood lines at any dance) are available fascinated with my shave cuts, when I was rubbing my face on it. Apart from this, right via the complete dance, she used to rub her vagina with panty, on my complex penis (with my garments on). She used to continue rubbing it for approximately 5-10 seconds after ejaculation.
Earlier, I was unaware that HIV/STD can transmit even by semen or vaginal fluids. But when I came to grasp approximately this transmission, I am thoroughly scared and not able to carry out my day-to-day pursuits. So requesting your assist....
I have discussed these with few docs on www. healthcaremagic.com, but I would settle upon an specialists opinion.
Now my questions are:
1) Will these shameful acts cause HIV or any quite STD?
FIRST LET ME ADDRESS HOW YOU ASKED THE QUESTION,
SHAMEFUL ACTS???
I THINK A MORE IMPORTANT QUESTION YOU SHOULD BE ASKING YOURSELF IS, SINCE I FEEL THAT WHAT I AM DOING IS SHAMEFUL, WHY I KEEP DOING IT? THIS SEEMS TO BE THE ROOT CAUSE OF THE ISSUE AND ONE THAT I THINK YOU NEED TO FIND AN ANSWER TO.
DO YOU FEEL LIKE LIVING DANGEROUSLY?
ARE YOU SO ADDICTED TO, AND ACCUSTOMED TO, VISITING THIS CLUB THAT THE FACT THAT THIS BEHAVIOR IS, DANGEROUS AT MOST, UNSANITARY IN THE LEAST, DOES NOT KEEP ME FROM REFRAINING
NOW TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONYES & YES!
THIS CAN CAUSE YOU TO GET A MULTITUDE OF BACTERIA IN YOUR FACE, IN ADDITION TO LITTLE CRAWLING CRITTERS LIKE CRABS. ANY VAGINAL DISCHARGE (THAT YOU MAY ALWAYS SEE), A FISHY OR MUSTY SMELL OR UNPLEASANT VIRGINAL ODOR IS NOT A GOOD THING TO HAVE YOUR FACE NEXT TO, OR IN, WHETHER YOU HAVE RECENTLY SHAVED OR NOT. HIV MIGHT BE SLIGHLY HARDER TO COME BY BASED ON WHAT YOU EXPLAINED BUT THERE IS A HOST OF OTHER VAGINAL FUNGUS AND BACTERIA HIDING IN SOME THONGS AND HIGH HEELS THAT MIGHT MAKE YOU WISH YOU WERE DEAD.
2) Will HIV get transmitted via the shaved cuts that contacted vaginal fluids or semen, when I rubbed my face on her butts or thigh?
REASEARCH SUGGESTS THAT THE RISK OF HIV INFECTION IN THIS WAY IS EXTRMEMLY SMALL. UNLESS YOU HAVE VAMPIRE TENDENCIES AND ARE DRINKING A LOT OF BLOOD YOU ARE PROBABLY SAFE.
three) How lengthy these shaved cuts takes time to heal in order that HIV/std irritation gets restricted?
READ THE ANSWER TO QUESTION #2
4) What are the possibilities of irritation from her rubbing vagina on my cummed penis everywhere my underwear or thin pant?
ZEROIF YOU CATEGORICALLY, ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY & UNCONDITIONALLY MUST HAVE A FOREIGN VAGINA AND BUTTOCKS RUBBED SOMEWHERE ON YOUR BODY ON A DAILY BASIS THEN I SUGGEST THAT YOU STICK TO THIS METHOD RATHER THAN HAVING IT RUBBED ON YOUR FACE
5) Sometimes, I may need rubbed my eyes with my fingers which touched her butts/thighs where vaginal fluids or semen may possibly also exist. What approximately the irritation via eyes, nostril and ears?
IM SURPRISED YOURE NOT BLIND YET? IF NOT YOURE PROBABLY OKAY!!! HOWEVER, IF YOU HAPPEN TO GO BLIND DO YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO CAN WRITE ME FOR ADVICE SINCE YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SEE THE COMPUTER KEYS!
IM NOT CERTAIN BUT IF I WERE A BETTING WOMAN I WOULD BET THAT THIS WOULD PROBABLY STOP YOU FROM RUBBING VAGINAL FLUID INTO YOUR EYES. HERE IS SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUTIF YOU KEEP LIVING DANGEROUSLY YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SEE A VAGINA; BASED ON YOUR INQUIRY THAT SHOULD MOTIVATE YOU TO STOP RUBBING STRANGE FEMALE FLUIDS INTO YOUR EYES.
6) For how lengthy does the virus (HIV) exist on her physique surface?
HIV DOES NOT LIVE OUTSIDE OF THE BODY.
Dear Dr. Sadie,
QUESTION:
7) Does a number of lap dances with essentially settle upon girls growth the any menace of irritation?
NO, BUT IT DOES INCREASE THE INSANITY OF THE SITUATION
8) I think, even a single HIV virus or STD inflicting organism irritation via the physique tor blood strem, is capable of inflicting irritation am I right? Please explain if it calls for exclusive volume of fluids (like carried out 1ml or 2ml) to cause the irritation
STOP ALREADY! STOP YOUR BEHAVIOR AND YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT
9) Finally what are the possibilities that one can get HIV/STD infections via these lap dances?
SEE QUESTION #8
10) Do you recommend me to take a HIV/STD investigate?
YES, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!
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